as i have mentioned before we have purchased a house for my eldest divorced daughter to help her, the house needs total renevation,,,she has no money. we have paid a hefty deposit and all solicitor fees. We said you need new windows first as these are rotten wooden ones, we gave her a brochure but there was no response....she chose a kitchen,,and we have ordered and paid for it,its waiting to be put in, but all the walls need plastering, and we told her that, no answer. she went with my husband..not her father incedently !...and he asked her to look at cookers and flooring, she went to the top of the ranges on all counts even to choosing an exspensive drainer. he said we need to get it all done and we are on a budget, we also need to change all the electric sockets she said i want all doubles everywhere,,ok that was done, we have found a oven package and hob for £200 less than she wanted us to pay for the oven alone, then came the flooring,,,she wants the best saying its not worth having cheap, but we have found the same as she chose but cheaper., she has told us she wants a new bathroom suite,,but we have said see if the old one will come up ok,,,if not we will replace,,,no responce,,,i shoipped with her 2 weeks ago and she chose wallpaper at £75, a roll,,,i said i wouldnt put that on the wall even if i could afford it,,,,,,she stormed off...furious,,,said ill move in the house but you are taking over,,,its your project not mine,,,i can do all the decorating and take out the old kitchen,,,,,,,,we have apid for proffesionals to come in to do everything,,,,the house is in an awfull state at the moment and the guys have said no way could a women do this,,,,,,,,,,,tonight we had a note pushed through the door saying i hope i am not being exspected to pay all the morgage and rent on my own place till i am able to move in as i cant do it,,,,,so straight away i jumped in the car and posted a cheque through her door for over a thousand pounds,.......waht an ungrateful girl she is i cant believe all this and it is making me ill,,,,,,my husband said i havent got the will to live,,,,,,,,,i am devestated,,,,,what shall i do,,????? we have already spent over £30.000 and havrent finished yet,,,,,,,
