In my sixties now. Although I had a very full and active sex life with my husband up to the menopause which was 54 for me, once I reached that my desire dried up more or less completely.
I read that everyone is enjoying it into their dotage but not me.
Personally I would be quite happy to call it a day but hubby, bless him who is 4 years older than me still likes to carry on and I of course feel sad that I cannot enjoy it in the same way. To keep him happy I participate occasionally.
One of the problems is I now feel if I cuddle him, which I would like to do more, he sees that as the green light so this holds me back. We have discussed this but I think he chooses to ignore it.
I know I should be grateful as he still finds me desirable ( can't imagine why) but I do find it problem
Does anyone else have this problem?
Gransnet forums
Relationships
Join the conversation
Registering is free, easy, and means you can join the discussion, watch threads and lots more.
Register now »Already registered? Log in with:
Gransnet »