This advice given me by old school friend of my husband.
He had written to daughter after Xmas to try and get her to realise the enormity of what she has done and how the litte ones lose out too . No response.
Am I unreasonable in finding it very insensitive? How does any mother move on from being betrayed and cut out of only daughters life. Not to mention grand daughters.
I know I am not alone other poor ladies in here gone through same hell. 4 years and still as painful so will it always be?
He also said rebuild your life what the hell des he think we been trying to do?
We had lovely day with our son and his family yesterday has 2 stepsons he does not want us to be further upset by going to court. We did not mention it yesterday too busy enjoying day but my oh did email him last week to wonder if he felt able approach our daughter again.
He is thinking about it!
Life goes on and really don't want never see daughter again but sadly could well be case.
Have found counsellor seen her once takes hour go through story! Seeing her again but oh wonders if just upsets me more going through it.
Want to ask her for some coping techniques next time.
It has put our marriage under enormous strain.
Any coping tips gratefully received.
Shall we reboot our cartoons thread again? 😁