Funny thing is often men and wives who have retired together never see each other ! I met my husband when he was 68 and had moved to Menorca after the death of his first wife, as he had good friends there ....but being on his own he found boring and difficult and that is where I came in ...he said he needed someone to share his life with (!) what he really meant was someone to be there after he spent all day on his boat fishing (sometimes we went out on it together .......but normally he and a man friend when fishing (complete with bag of beer bottles ...it's a wonder they ever managed to get back !)....the we moved to France and the obligatory renovation .....which meant, in a three storey house with vast numbers of rooms, we never saw each other as he was in one part renovating, and I was in another doing the same ...then it was gardening and laying pavements, etc etc so I was on my own doing different bits to the house ,,,we briefly saw each other for dinner ,,,,then we moved again, and didn't see each other very often during the day for several years, but now he is 84 and winding down we do spend the day in the same house, but that's about it .....he prefers his old films and music in the conservatory whilst U (like now !) am in my office filing and doing the accounts, and messing about on the computer ,,,,we may see each other at dinner time, unless there is a particularly enthralling episode of Police Interceptors on ......so we do virtually nothing together, but it seems to work for us .....if I was unhappy by this there are plenty of charities needing help or online things I could do ....never seem to have time for hobbies or reading which I love !! If however you are unhappy, perhaps if you talk about it with your husband you might be able to find an activity you could do together say at the weekends ....