Thank you all for your replies, it obviously touched a nerve with a lot of people. I think I always knew deep down what to do, felt uneasy about the whole situation. One thing I do know without doubt, I would never leave money to an addict, it would go straight into either the drink, the drugs or the gambling, in two of those cases they would probably overdose and could die, I would leave their share to organisations that are there to help them recover or another family member in the hope that should they recover they could have the money as start up.
Thank you all,sorry for all those people with family problems, it seems most people have a problem in their family, albeit different.
I laughed today and it felt good.