Don't want to hijack BabyLayla's thread about missing her DIL ,, but it raised some questions in my mind, so I'm starting a new thread. Her conversation made me wonder, is a MIL expected to get along equally well with each DIL if DS marries more than once? What happens if she loved his first wife, but isn't so crazy about his second, for example? And what if she's able to keep a good relationship with XDIL, but new DIL resents it? Is it "safe" to ignore new DIL's concerns? Or does she need to back away from XDIL and focus on cementing her relationship with new DIL? What if DS marries several times? How many times does his mom need to try to get to know/develop a relationship with a new DIL? Or does it depend on certain factors?
She's manipulative - 5-year-old GD
Is it discrimination? - obesity
She invited herself - daughter