My older sister is a hoarder who was never very close to me and spent years grabbing everything of value she could from our parents. In 30 years she never visited me. Now she is estranged from her children and her second marriage is failing. She has no close friends. I've kept up communications, had her for Xmas two years in a row and included her on our friends beach trip. I even spent 10 days cleaning her home and caring for her after surgery. Now she wants to be included in all holidays and is mad that I haven't planned a spring/summer trip, even though I have a grandchild suffering from cancer and am spending each night at the hospital. I took two days off at a friend's summer place and she cried about not being invited, then hung up on me. How do I deal with this? (My trip to care for her revealed that much of our mother's lost or stolen jewelry was in her possession, left out in plain sight. (I didn't snoop).
She's manipulative - 5-year-old GD
Is it discrimination? - obesity
She invited herself - daughter