My DH died just before Christmas and although we had a joint account and I had been dealing with most household bills for years, including our car, I am still trying to sort out some of his business. Just when I think it's all sorted I get a nasty shock when I find there are direct debits still being paid each month.
We also had our own personal accounts, credit cards, pensions and probably investments.
I may need a financial advisor yet!
I agree, you should not be buying his wine if you are not even drinking it. Gross unfairness.
But I don't know why you are getting all these unkind messages implying you have been doing things wrong all these years. You haven't. There are many different ways to live.
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