Lucyloo12 in the nicest possible way, I think it's time for the 'big girl pants' he needs to be told you are NOT interested and also your friendship now has to end due to him being so persistent. You are not his wife-substitute if this is not what 'you' want, also I would not help him find clubs/online dating/etc he has to stand on his own two feet and meet someone, if that's what he wants. His death threat is just to lure you, again, don't listen.
You have to put yourself first and do what 'you' want. He's not thinking about you, he's only thinking of himself so it's time to cut 'all' ties, not more walking or meeting for coffee or whatever you did previously. Don't be available any time and definitely don't apologise or offer an explanation...this would only feed his need to know where you are every minute of the day. Sorry, it's time to get tough.
Normally I would not be so blunt (I treat people as I like to be treated myself) but this man hasn't taken 'no' for an answer and still continues badgering you...that's not being fair to you and causing you distress.
He has told you who he is...please listen! Hope you have a great weekend
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