Back in 2014, for reasons I can only guess, my daughter-in-law decided that she did not want us to have any direct contact with our grandchild beside the very occasional 1 hour visit. Our son went along with it and although it hurt us deeply we did not want it to become an issue in their marriage, so we complied. The first 2 nd half years of our grandsons life passed with us seeing him 6 times. It became clear that our Grandson had developmental issues and he is quite a handful. Our son's business nearly failed partley due to him having to devote so much time to his son. We could have been such a help and source of back up childcare when needed but sadly we don't know our grandson well enough to do that. We could have helped both with our Grandson and the business but we were kept away. Their attitude also kept away our other son whoes mother-in -law happens to be an expert in caring for children with our Grandson's problems. Then last March at the age of 62, I was diagnosed with cancer that was incurable and given less than one year to live. My son was devasted by the news but also by the realisation how cruel his and the DIL actions were and that they had caused an emotional distance between us. We have not got time to build bridges and have a relationship now. So those of you that are suffering at the hands of their children use this to remind them thst they might live to regret their actions. That last conversation you have with your parent or parent in law may the one that will be remembered for the rest of your life.
Another week, another Tory MP sex scandal!
Nicola Sturgeon’s husband Peter Murrell re-arrested over SNP finances.