For the past couple of years my husband has had less and less interest in sex. He's seven years older than me, I'm only 58 and not only is it important to me but I feel the lack of it is damaging our relationship. Every now and again when I've raised the issue he promises to make more effort but nothing changes. He absolutely hates the idea of seeing a counsellor - he is a kind of old fashioned man and quite private. I have been patient and tried to be understanding. I've tried putting no pressure on. I've made suggestions. He's seen a GP but never really follows is through. There has at times been a slight ED problem but the GP prescribed some viagra which he hasn't even tried. This is now becoming a massive elephant in the room and I feel sad, very anxious and at a loss as to what to do. I can't carry on like this but couldn't envisage life without him either. Has anyone else experienced this? Any suggestions lovely ladies.
Treated badly - nurses' pay
Do I leave him? - DH or GC?
A good idea? - letting her stay