I'm new to posting & don't really know what I'm asking but I read all your replies to other posts & you are such a wise bunch so here goes....
I have had a very difficult marriage due to my hushands lack of affection & general disregard for my feelings.
I have just recently discovered (again!!!! It has happened many times in our relationship) that although he has no interest in any kind of intimacy with me, he is still interested in women.... I was devastated.... again!!!!! He is not having an affair.....
Why don't I just leave? .... I'm trapped.... A long, long story very short... I am full time carer for my 5 yo granddaughter & this is her home. I have no money so can't look to working something out as cash would be needed.
To top it all, I'm in love with someone else & he with me... we are ex work colleagues & have known each other many years but did not like each other so it has come as a shock to both of us. He is single, with no ties as such.
How can I be devastated at my husband's lack of care when I want to be with someone else.... It's easy, I've loved my husband, still do & tried very, very hard for nearly 30 years to make our marriage work.
So... to sum up... Broken hearted in my marriage, trapped due to little granddaughter (the love of my life btw), no money, want to be with someone else...
I know that some may not approve of my love for the other man but be kind, I have been sad & lonely for many years.....
Can anyone see a way forward out of this because I can't see the wood for the trees & feel desperate.....
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