We're on holiday with DS DDIL and DGD (nearly three). DGD likes playing card games, even if she's not quite sure of the rules. I suggested playing Snap, which she'd never played - DS was helping her, DH was also playing. I wanted her to win. Obviously. I'm an adult, she's not yet three. Then DH accused me of cheating. Said I was looking at my card before I put it down. This was so absurd I thought he must be joking. (You put it down really quickly, no time to look, and the card is turned away from you as you put it down.) But he wasn't. He mimed the action I was supposed to do. (Exactly the one I'd just done.) I'm irrationally upset by this and am finding it hard to get over. He actually thinks I'd try and defeat a three-year-old at cards by cheating. Cheating is not something I do anyway. My stomach is churning, and I'm more upset by this than I would ever have thought. What it says about him, what he thinks of me. And now I'm concerned he'll be annoyed with me for sulking. Any ideas for getting over this?
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