Hello everyone, I have posted on here before about my mother's dementia being Vascular and Alzheimer's. It is obviously very hard looking after her although she is still in her own home and myself and family doing our very best as she has a fear of going into a care home.
Mum was always a very quiet lady and hated any noise, believe you me myself and siblings must have been the quietest children ever!
The problem is mum's next door neighbour died and it was obvious whoever was buying the house was very disabled as ramps went in, hand rails and a wet room. A physically and mentally disabled lady moved in and carers come and go all day. This poor lady cries and shouts and squeals out all day long and it is really bad. With the weather having been so warm the windows are open at times and it has been worse with the noise. My mum gets so worked up about it and won't sit in the garden now and I just don't know what to do and don't think I can do anything. I feel awful even posting this and my heart goes out to this poor soul, it really does.
Is this called Care in the Community?
Has anyone else had to deal with a problem? It is so stressful looking after mum and she is extra stressed now due to the noise. The carers who come and go just say hello and that is it and really at the end of the day not my business what the set up is.
I doubt we would be able to sell mum's house if she did pass away due to this wailing. Every time I go it gets to me straight away and sounds so morbid and upsetting.
Thanks for listening and I feel really bad posting this, I honestly do and know there isn't an answer.
What do you all think? Any ideas for me and mum to handle this better would be much appreciated. Thanks so much.
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