This is just an experience but forgive me for adding it if not appropriate.
A few years ago my husband and I were invited to a Christening at a spiritualist church. My husband was Godfather. We went to a normal service where this christening was to be at the end. There was a medium there. I think we were both surprised by this thinking we were going to a christening. What struck me though was what happened next.
OH had a problem at work at the time ( I wont go into details). No one knew about this problem other than my husband and me (I mean no one, we had told no one) . We knew no one there and not even the people who my husband was being Godfather for knew either - not even my husbands family knew , nor mine and there was absolutely no one in this church meeting who knew us at all and no one from my husbands work..... in fact we werent even in the same town. We were total strangers to this church and even the man who had asked my OH to be Godfather was not close to us in anyway and had no way at all of knowing about my husbands "problem" at that time.
The medium started giving out messages - lots of people there wanted some message from a loved one I could see, they were eager and waiting for her.
She then said she had someone with glasses wanting to give a message ( yeah good old ruse) , several answered but she ignored them. We didnt anwer. She looked straight at us....
still we didnt acknowledge her.
She added details about the woman with glasses, about her occupation and her family life...... ok they could be anyone but they certainly did relate to us but we didnt answer. Still she persisted in waiting for a response from my OH - we tried to look down....clearly she wanted us to have this message . In the end she just said - she wants to tell you not to worry because it has all been sorted out already and when you get in to the meeting next week everything will work out and it will be ok. She wants you not to worry. She wants you to know that. She kept looking at us......
Now no one could have known anything. We didnt acknowledge it. No one could understand how a medium was talking to two non believing strangers ..... but it was a strange experience. Its often left me wondering about spirits since.