susiecb, my younger life was something similar to yours. I became pregnant at 15 while doing not so badly at a good school. Had to leave (no choice in the 60's), and had my daughter at 16. My parents, having unsuccessfully tried to 'bully' me into going into a mother and baby home, insisted that the baby was to be adopted, and that I wasn't to see 'it' after the birth. However, a young nurse presented her to me one morning and that was it. I defied my parents and was determined to keep her, although she was fostered for a few months. I had to move out of the parental home and went to live with a school-friend's family, who were very supportive. I did marry the father but this eventually ended in divorce after having had 2 more children to him, (one, a little boy, died of cot-death). In the meantime I worked as library assistant in the earlier years, and picking up a bit of work here and there later on. Really, when I think about it, I wish the father hadn't happened, because he was a horror, but if he hadn't then I wouldn't now have those 2 lovely girls, and their own daughters. I may have worked myself into a really fine career though, as I loved working in the library and would have probably progressed along those lines if fate hadn't made me turn direction. I'm now quite happy with what I've done, because I think I found my real niche.