Because I went to an all-girls convent school, I don't think I thought of boys as actually having feelings and I treated them very badly. I would make two dates for the same night, thinking I would decide which one to go to on the night. Sometimes I forgot and made them also for the same meeting place, so I had to miss both of them! It was only when I had grandsons and saw how hurt they could be that I began to regret my youthful cruelty.
I had a lot of fun reading the replies to my Lonely Hearts adverts - some of them were so funny and so lacking in self-knowledge, or any idea of what makes a man attractive to a woman. I also had the deceased mother evenings, the 'my ex is a bitch who has taken me to the cleaners' evenings, and the 'I would like to settle down with a nice woman who is a good cook and not one of these modern feminists'. Since I was one of these modern feminists, they soon got the heave-ho.
One chap had gone to Thailand and got himself a young woman about 30 years younger than himself. He said he thought she would be more loving and helpful than a British woman. Of course, he meant he thought she would do exactly what he wanted and never argue. She had turned out to be a really tough cookie, who had got her British visa, cleaned him out of money, and returned to Thailand to do exactly the same thing again. I couldn't feel much sympathy for him.
I never felt in any danger on my dates, as I was careful to meet in public places and only one man actually shocked me. We were having dinner when he suggested that we go to an S & M club. He hastened to tell me that we did not need to actually take part - just watch other people enjoying beating each other or being beaten. I did come across a range of fetishes that I found a bit surprising (not the foot one, I knew all about that) but perhaps they are not suitable to be described here!
One thing was fairly standard - my dates were hardly ever as young, tall, hirsute or successful as their letters had suggested! And, no, I didn't lie in my adverts, as I was at the time quite glamorous and shapely and I would have hated to see disappointment on my date's face when he saw me!