I agree with AlieOxon, although it is not as easy for women to achieve their dreams as it is for men. Personally I was always happy to be at home, although funnily enough I did work for 12 years as a school secretary, something I said I wanted to do when I was about 14 years old, so though not a mind-boggling goal, I really managed to do what I wanted. Surely that is important, being where you want to be, and comfortable with it. At least we have the right to say if we think something is wrong - although perhaps the thread has wandered a little.