Thank you all for your support again - you are lovely.
We've made progress - it's not Wednesday!
As absent implies, there seems to be an expectation that, if you don't do fit in to suit the unit, you don't care! This is after waiting a fortnight for the final go ahead for Mum's discharge to be finalised and the fact that it was impressed on me that her room should be ready with her bits and pieces and one of us should be there to help her settle in or she runs the risk if having another stay in the unit .
There doesn't seem to be any acceptance of the reality that my brothers work and can't take time of at the drop of a hat or the fact that today, I'm on granny duty and yesterday it was the East Midlands meetup!
Anger management!!! Help needed.