Hello Grans!
I need some advice from a non biasted group. Im tierd, fed up with my MIL who is also a gran.
Before i tell you whats annoyed me this time, please bare in mind that this isnt a one off, this is a regular thing, also heaps more has happened..5 years of things that have happened.
Today, she was supposed to come down to see her GD. We changed plans even tho we had things to do, did a super clean up, told our daughter..etcetc.
She texted me my saying she couldnt come down today cause she was on her period.
This is'nt the first time shes used this..her husband drives so its not like she has to walk. she sits and drinks coffee whilst shes does so its not exactly 'hard work' oh and shes 42.
Now, the reason im pretty pissed, im 35 weeks pregnant with our 2nd. I have hip/pelvis and back ache. Baby is engaged so it feels like there is an elephant ready to fall out. Im exhausted and im pain and have been for most of my pregnancy...yet i still manage to pull through an hour or so vists once a week.
So my question is, is canceling on your GD due to period pain acceptable?
Am i just being hormonal?
She isnt the one who has to tell my 3 year old 'nanny and grandad' arn't coming down, again.
Im just totaly fed. and very hormonal. AIBU?
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