DH had open heart surgery twelve months ago, all a bit traumatic the result of 40 years of heavy smoking - stopped smoking day prior to op and I thought had not recommenced. Has been doing very well on niquitin tabs for 12 months and is way better, just discovered he has started smoking again. Not sure how long it has been going on for now but suspect for some weeks. Absolutely furious and angry, he took some nursing back to health, through the winter, lots of encouragement and positive support to recover and to keep off the fags. I had said that if he started again I would leave him because the bad temper and anger I had to put up with over last winter was unbelievable and I won't take responsibility for him if he is ill again. Gransnetters advice please...do I smack him hard, leave it, ignore it.....any ideas gratefully received.
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