I have mentioned on here before about my DD's relationship with her friend's parents, especially her mother. Before I go on, yes I am jealous. I used to think DD and I were close. To cut a long story short, since she has been friends with this particular girl, they have formed a group who socialise and go to barbecues, parties etc, all the mums/nans are included in this group except for me. I have lately learned that my DD's mother-in-law is also included on some of these occasions (my DD hasn't got on with her mil in the past but now they get on well). I have a particular issue with the friend's mother. My DD is always singing her praises. I have met her on a few occasions and have always found her to be rather rude and sort of 'look at me, I'm in with the in crowd and you are not'. My husband has told me to pull myself together, stop being jealous and be nice. So on the next occasion I met her, I asked her how she was enjoying her retirement etc. She talked at length about herself, ending with 'sorry I didn't catch your name'. OK whatever. I told DH and he said, well you tried. About 3 weeks ago we were invited to a short, fundraising 'do' where this woman was in attendance. My DH, who she has met before, told me afterwards that he had caught her eye (twice) and smiled and she had turned her head away from him (she's a friend of the Lord Mayor don't you know so obviously doesn't want to speak to the likes of us). DH has recently been diagnosed with cancer and has been to hell in a handcart, she knows this and I am furious that she did this to him and upset that my daughter thinks that someone like this is 'lovely'. They are all out on a jolly today and I am sitting here festering I am tempted to tell my daughter, but she will say I am just being spiteful and we will fall out. I have to say at this moment I feel pretty spiteful. DH says 'forget it, she is nothing to us'. Why am I so bothered about this when we have real problems I wonder?
Recommendations please, for a stopover on the way to Loch Tay