I'm sorry but the only way I can describe our children's mother in this post is as the bitch. If that offends you I apologise but I can't help it.
We have our children every weekend. DH goes dancing on a Friday night then sleeps in the car so that he can collect them (we can't afford the diesel for him to come home and then go up there again). DH used to collect them at 9am but that had to be altered because their ballet class changed from Wednesday night to Saturday morning. We weren't happy but accepted it couldn't be helped and the children love going to ballet. So now DH collects them at 11.30am.
Sometimes our weekends are affected due to party invites. Again we accept that these things happen. We can't stop children going to parties just because it cuts our time with them.
Today our DD is going to a party and a sleepover so DH said he would take DS out for the day...a bit of Dad/son bonding. The bitch said that she hadn't realised DH would go up so had arranged for DS to go out for tea at his friend's house. DH wasn't happy but as it was arranged went along with it and said we'd take the children out on Sunday. On weekends like this he usually takes one or both children out locally on Saturday then we both go up on Sunday for another day out so it's not that she wouldn't know that he would plan something for the Saturday.
This morning DD phoned to tell us what was planned for the party....another post lol. DS came on the phone to talk to us and DH asked if he was looking forward to going out for tea. DS said he wasn't going out for tea. DH said that it was a shame it had been cancelled. DS said it hadn't been cancelled because he'd never been going to his friend's house for tea because his friend was spending today with his daddy.
Obviously the bitch lied to us. She didn't want DH to take our son out today. She likes to spread the story that DH is a lousy dad.
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