I think there has been a thread on this before. There is an hour to go before we need to leave for our holiday and what is my OH doing? Is he packing or putting bags in the car, or planning the fun to come? No....he is cleaning the house! Of course I do understand how vital it is that the empty house should be clean for the benefit of the non-existent people who are going to see it, so I am biting my tongue and going with the flow like the perfect wife that I am. Sigh.
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.