My DH's cousin lives in Canada and we have kept in touch with her and her husband for many years. They have a daughter who used to visit us in the 1970s and 1980s.
The daughter, who we liked, can best be described a bit like someone from 'The Good Life' and she has led a self sufficient life for as long as we can remember.
She has unfortunately had a number of unhappy relationships and when she was left a couple of years ago we thought that in her mid 40s that was it.
Then we happened to see on her Facebook, which we look at about once a year that she had got engaged last Xmas, however nothing was said to us when her parents phoned for an occasional chat or email.
I then saw a couple of days ago on her Father's Facebook that she had married last weekend. I only knew it as her surname had changed.
We have been told absolutely nothing, even though we thought we were close to the family.
Does this seem odd to you ?