Just a thought, although he thinks he's being Superman doing the things that you/ we do everyday, would it be worth gritting your teeth and lavishing praise on him for every little task he does?
"Oh, DH, well done for emptying the kitchen bin, I really appreciate it!" (I think that to say it had never been done so well before may be a tad ott)
"What, you've done a load of washing and some washing up?! Goodness, well done, have a glass of wine and pour me one too, we must celebrate. Now, if you could summon enough energy and time management skills to push the Hoover round while the washing is doing, then you could be ready to run the country, if not the world!"
OK, maybe a tad excessive, but hopefully you get my point