Bikergran... Blushing does seem to be a factor of pale skin. I used to blush so much too. BUT the more you think about blushing the more an issue it becomes, A) it isn't always that obvious to other people as you think and B) I started focusing on OTHER people. By that I mean, IF you can start thinking in your head...what a big nose, ears, mouth that (guy/woman) has, it does lessen. If anyone mentions it...just laugh it off ( again it helps)
My teenage years were positively ruined because I thought I blushed so much and dreaded certain social events. But you know what? Asking years later, absolutely nobody remembered me for blushing, just for me being fun!!!
I think all you need to do is 'embrace' it, laugh about it, focus on other people and you will get over it.