My idea of equalisation would have meant women working till 62 so having to do 2 more years and men having their pension age reduced to 62. I think this would have been fair as men ,in general, don't live as long as women. I am not in as bad a position as some but what does irritate me is that politicians want everything their way. For example I read an article by some Tory, can't remember his name, in which he said that more people should care for elderly or infirm relatives. Well that's just fine isn't it? Somehow women have to build up a pension pot, care for children and grandchildren ( often ) and relatives and look after their own home and all this while often having illness themselves. I wondered what planet he is on?
FWIW , I have always worked in local government , my kids went to nursery as I worked full time . I did a very stressful job which also involved being on call . Both of my children have health issues and eventually I realised that I couldn't work any longer. Something would give and that would be me, so I retired early . As I had contributed to the pension scheme I could access my pension but I know people ,mainly women, who only worked part time or didn't join. I know they will be far worse off than those who worked full time.
As I say I think none of it was thought out. The people who make these changes have never been in the position of doing a rubbish job . They live in gilded cages and are quite happy with that .