A friend went on a widowed and divorced dating site last year. She clicked on a photo of someone who I thought was impossibly good looking and was talking to him for ages online. She said he was really romantic - had been widowed and was looking for real love again. Supposedly working on a building project in Dubai and earning bucketfuls of money - she displayed all the signs of being in love. One day she got a message from him asking her to contact him on WhatsApp because he was wary that their conversations were being monitored by site mediators and he wanted a ‘proper’ conversation. When she contacted him via WhatsApp he told her his contract was ending in a week or so and he wanted to send a package home, but there would be no one there to sign for it, as he was working away - asked could he send it to her and collect it when he got home. In the same email he asked could she wire him £5000 to tide him over until his payment for the contract was cleared into his bank. She was going to do it until I stepped in and showed her a YouTube post warning people against that very scam. She closed down the conversation, deleted WhatsApp and reported it to the police and the dating website. It turned out to be a scammer working from a base in India. You really do have to be so careful, these people are professionals and prey on the vulnerable and the lonely.