What do you think about my 'ex'

Too many mental games for my taste. Life is too short for this bs

MsCarol As the film title goes: He’s just not that into you.

Sneaking out and meeting round the corner for a snog isn’t dating, unless you’re about 12.

Ditto. The last time I read something like this was in my Jackie comic when I was 12.
MsCarol he's made it perfectly clear that he's not interested in a relationship with you. Move on and take your pride with you, unless you're happy to settle for a quick snog in a doorway.

A person who is older than 30 and playing these tricks is not worth it.

Why bother with him - what's the point?

A person who is older than 30 13 and playing these tricks is not worth it.

Have some self respect! You sound like a teenager with a crush .

I can't quite understand all of your post but the behaviour of hoth of you and your female friend sounds very silly and immature to me. I think it's time to consider acting more adult. Sorry if that sounds rude.

You sound very young yet you are on a site for grandmothers.

It reads a bit like an agony aunt question in a teen magazine!

A lot of teenagers seem to think we are agony aunts, JenniferEccles I have lost count of the number of posts from what sound like fourteen-year-olds writing about teenage dating tangles.

Friends with benefits, really!
Where is your self respect?

It all sounds very childish. I really think you both need to grow up a bit.

What a waste of space!
Walk away. Block him. Maybe he’s getting some vicarious pleasure hearing about your dates? What a weird set up you’ve got yourself in to.

Sounds a weird set up. There’s some good, if unwelcome advice on here. For me, the relationship you describe isn’t a relationship . I’d drop it now.

Oh dear! Unfortunately you're just a toy to him. I'm sorry to be so blatant but, honestly, do yourself a huge favour and dump him, you're worth better than him!!!

It seems to me that you are using eachother,what a waste of life.

It’s best not to discuss other relationships with a boyfriend or partner, it causes all sorts of complications that neither of you need.
Having a man as a friend and regularly messaging can really mess up your life.

This definitely isn’t going anywhere. Friends with benefits? You hardly know him. I wonder if he is married?

In two words SWIPE LEFT

He doesn’t sound like an ex to me, you became friends with benefits after you split up, I don’t think he cared much for you in the first place

He sounds like a complete waste of time and I wouldn't bother with him. He gets a bit horny now and then and uses the date thing as an excuse to get you there, then is bored with you. Dump him.