Dh and I are, dreadful expression coming up, comfortable in our retirement but the parents in law of our three daughters are not. Their husbands are all really nice men. Dh and I have a per person budget for birthdays and Christmas which we stick to fairly rigidly.
The problem comes with DD1's MiL who always announces to the room in general 'oh, I can't compete with that!' when presents are being opened
I am always really embarrassed but she seems to take great delight in drawing attention to the disparity. DGC will start to notice soon I fear. I should say that we get on quite well when we meet.
Should we say or do anything. We love to spoil the DGC at Christmas and birthdays but we are careful not to spoil them between times.
Has this happened to anyone else? Did you ignore it? Did you change what you spent?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic