What wonderful, lovely stories. I met my ex husband at uni on the same degree course as me. We became good friends and when he wanted something more, I resisted, afraid to loose the friendship and knowing deep down, that he wasn't really for me although the physical attraction was considerable. Of course I gave in and we had our first date on my 19th birthday, he three weeks younger. I was blown away by first sex and confused it with love such was my inexperience.
We lived together while students and married at 22. Three children, 30 years later we separated and divorced. I always think: 10 good years, 10 mediocre years and 10 miserable years. We should have called it quits long before and probably should never have married if I'd trusted my judgement and he'd listened to me!
Present partner 4 years younger, met online seven years ago, much better, much happier! I do have huge regard for couples who stay together happily over the years though.