I love gransnet. I been able to air my problems, share my thoughts and worries.get advice and share some of my demons and show off about my grandchildren. Iv also learnt something about myself that's unsettled me a little. ( not enough to keep me awake!) I think I shy away from any type of conflict. I'm so sickly sweet I almost make my self vomit[finger down throat emotion] years ago my then boss sent me on an assertive course because I found it difficult to turn people away if they were late for their appointment. It drove her crazy. ( we still meet up a few times a year so it didn't put her off me completely) The conclusion was that I didn't do it for their sake. Apparently I did it because I wanted to be 'liked' we'll obviously knowing and accepting this about myself hasn't solved the problem. I am not a procrastinator and can hold my own in an argument. Forced into a corner I can hold my ground. I'm told I can be quite brave about putting my opnion forward at large meetings Especially if I'think either myself or others are not being treated fairly. I look at some of the posts on here and I do admire those that are not afraid to say it how it is. I'm steeling myself for some of your replies. ( perhaps I should practice on gransnet but it's interesting what makes us tick. I can sort of trace it back to my childhood but I'm 61 so why can't I change ?
Is there such a thing as delicious ready meals?