Hello all
I usually post on Mumsnet (though I am not a mum yet - on which more below!) but don't want to ask this there as some posters seem to be quite critical of MILs and I would really appreciate getting a grandparent's POV on how to deal with this - sorry if this is long
MIL is very nice and we get on well but she is obviously quite keen to have GC and has begun dropping hints (with decreasing subtlety!) often in social situations which I find quite embarrassing and not really sure how to deal with
I am keen myself to have DC soon but DH does not feel ready yet. This sort of makes it worse as I feel I would not be defending my own decision not to have DC yet but his!
I have suggested that he have a conversation with his mum re his feelings about waiting to have DC but he is a very private person and does not feel comfortable with this - he says his family doesn't have those sorts of conversations
My question essentially is if you were MIL how would you want your DIL to handle this in a way that would cause minimum offence? So far I have laughed the comments off and/or changed the subject. I wouldn't want to embarrass her in front of her family/friends as she often makes these comments in front of people. Equally I don't want to promise her GC that we might not be having! Should I just tell her we are not having any yet as her son does not feel ready??
Thanks if you got to the end of this and any suggestions would be gratefully received!
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