When my husband and I split up, he took up with a younger lady. I was, as you can image, very upset at the time. However, she moved in with him, and I moved on and found another wonderful man, and she was amazing with my 6 grandchildren, and they loved her.
Last summer my ex decided he wanted an even younger model, and she had to move out. My grandchildren were so upset. They cried. Now my ex is trying to get his grandchildren to love his new lady. They like her, but not as much as his previous partner.
I contacted her on Facebook and we have now become friends. She is very bitter about the whole breakup, but especially about losing contact with my grandchildren, who she loved.
She still sends birthday cards to my grandchildren and would love to see them again.