Hi I hope your words can de-stress me as I've finally broken my silence over my DiLs behaviour. I have 3 DiLs, 2 are lovely but the 3rd has always been v difficult. For 7 years I've swallowed hard & bitten my tongue over so many things to do with her laziness towards her children, laziness towards everything to do with the home, my hard working step son works full-time hours & she still expects him to do her bidding ... she does nothing, her home looks & smells like a pig sty... she spends most of her time playing games on her Iphone. She is 6mths pregnant & still smoking & drinking. Today, she sat with her back turned towards me (as per usual) she lit 3 cigarettes up whilst we were all in the pub garden... it was like she was putting two fingers up... I just snapped, & asked her why she was still smoking, & finished by saying it was like child abuse. There is so much more I could add to this story, but my question is "what's my next move?"
I am a nice person & today I have been really upset over this. I know today was the straw that broke the camels back, but on the way home my partner said I should have kept quiet... for me, that upset me more.
Thanks for any advice xx
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
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