Let me make it clear I am not criticising ALL parents. I am getting increasingly irked by the lack of discipline by some parents whilst out shopping with their young (under 10) children. Two examples I've encountered over the last 2 days are: in a Sports store a lad of about 8 took a ball from a basketful and proceeded to bounce it around the shop until a male assistant told him to stop. The lad pulled a face, the mother completely ignored it - the ball wasn't purchased hence a slightly dirty ball is now on sale. The other instance was in a busy supermarket where a mother was shopping with two under 5s. She continually blocked the aisles with her trolley while being totally oblivious to the youngsters darting about picking up items willy-nilly. When loading her trolley the little darlings (they did look cute ☺) wandered around the car park - thankfully no accident occurred. I am fully aware of how stressful it can be shopping with young children but back in the day when my girls were young (17 months between them) they knew they had to stay with me and not touch things we weren't buying, if they did they were told off. My daughter has the same values and has brought her children up the same way - though she did have to remove my GD from a shop once or twice when she threw herself on the floor in a tantrum after being told she couldn't have something, ignoring disapproving looks from other shoppers - you can't give in just to save embarrassment. Am I just a grumpy not so old Grandma? or do others feel the same way?
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