I hope you don't mind me joining. I am married to a lovely guy for almost 3 years together 6. My mil has always disliked me, she honestly has been on my case he entire 6 years. Anyway it all got to much a few years back and my husband was given the choice, stick up for me or leave (he couldn't be bothered with arguing so just ignored the issue)
I have said to her so many times that there's plenty of room in his life for us both but she won't have it. I have been emotionally blackmailed, bullied and it's been awful. He still sees her with the kids (wouldn't dream of stopping him).
She has told me before that she can make me go away, whatever that means! I gave up trying last year, told her to crack on I couldn't be bothered anymore and have avoided her since. Now obviously I'm getting the blame as I'm making no effort. Why would I for someone who clearly hates me.
Anyway my question- how on earth do I get her to see I'm not a threat? I'm sick of having to either be excluded or exclude myself from his side of the family
Is there anyone who still thinks that Israel's actions in Gaza are justifiable?