My son & his partner split 3 years ago when their little girl was 5. At first things were very frosty with my gd's mother, but over the last couple of years I have worked very hard on establishing a good relationship with her and also have my GD a lot.(which is brilliant)
My dilemma is for the first time in 3 years I recently had occasion to go into her flat to help with something. It not only smells (which to be honest I have often smelt from the hallway) but one room is just piled high with junk. I didn't see the bedrooms but the rest of the flat is in a state.
What do I do? I don't think it would help if my DS spoke to her as they are always trying to 'score points' Should I offer to help her sort it out. Also we have noticed for some time a fusty smell from GD's clothes when she comes. Both my DS and GD live part the week with us.
But I don't want to ruin my fragile relationship with the mother.
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