tanith!
I had to go to a funeral where the deceased's wishes of having absolutely nothing were respected. We only went to support another relative who was very closely related to the deceased.
It was horrible. It was as though the deceased person had never existed.
I have been to other funerals where despite the grief for the person who has died, people have come away feeling solace in their grief, because of kind words that have been said, or relationships rekindled, or aspects of the person's life have been revealed.
If you want a nothing funeral, please think of those left behind. That's who the funeral is really for, to allow them to celebrate your life and feel thankfulness for the person you have been and who will live on in their memories.