I have babysat a lot for my DD's friend. DD now lives several hours away. Friend went back to work as children reached school age so babysitting to give her a night with OH has changed to babysitting until she/he come back from work. I was quite happy with this as it coincided with my retirement. I have had to turn down some social outings to do this and didn't give it a thought until my SIL suggested I should be paid as my babysitting has changed to childminding. The parents do shift work, are lovely people, the children are well behaved but I wondered what GNetters thought. I don't want paid/to be employed by them and I think have to register as a childminder and then become very tied down. Friday night babysitting worked fine. Am I being "soft" as my SIL says. I haven't mentioned it to DD. if I withdrew my "free" help, would I be "Punishing" them for working yet babysit to go out to theatre/restaurant. Shift work makes childcare awkward. Wondering????
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