Poppy No I didn't want a wig. I'm sure they are great these days but it wasn't for me. The 'system' I have is just like having your own hair. You can wash it - just like you do with your own (head in the sink or in the shower etc), curl it, straighten it etc. You can't colour it yourself but the people at the salon will change the colour for you if you wish. You can have any colour or style you want. It wouldn't be for everyone but I was desperate, having lost all my hair. I wasn't going out and was upset and crying all the time. The thing that would put some people off and it did me at first, they glue it to your head - I know, it sounds awful but it's fine. It would never, ever come off. I have been out in gale force winds. It looks really natural and hair is attached to a fine mesh skin which, when in place, looks like your scalp. A bit similar to the Ellery ones but attached in a different way as I have no hair to attach. I think they have other systems for people with less hair loss although I am unsure. The only down side isI have to go back every 6 weeks and they remove it and condition my scalp etc but I just grin and bear it as I'm not in there long. I have seen young men (it is mainly men) with fabulous, trendy hair in there and then I realise they have a system like mine. Not cheap though but I believe it's saved my life - literally. I've had it for over 8 years now and never had a problem with it but like I say, I would never recommend in case it didn't work out for people as well as it's worked for me. Sorry this is so long!