My youngest DD is pregnant, hurrah. She had a miscarriage year before last which was very traumatic. She has two other children. The house that they live in is rented, landlord does nothing, very run down. We would like to help them get their own place, any Gran know the best way to help. I worry that if we do help, what if we spend on them the money which should be for our old age? Or is that selfish?
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