Becuse of my condition, state of health, call it what you will, apart from tablets, capsules, inhaler and such, I have a bottle of liquid morphine, for self administration...........I get enough for a month at a time.enough to drop a horse..........and my current state means that I do get rather, lets say, fed up.
I have looked at that bottle knowing that if drunk in one, well that would be it. and being selfish, the relief appeals.....but only fleetingly.... The cost is too high... I know there is a tomorrow, and my not being around would cause pain and confusion, worst of all self doubt and self questioning by those closest who would take my actions as a fault of their own..........and I cannot bear to contemplate the anguish of children and grandchildren.
Then again, this is only a mental exercise for me, in my lowest moments. Brought about by feeling ( and actually being to a great extent) useless, and needing help and care all the time.....This does not sit easily with me after being independent, self sufficient, a provider.
Now this is not an unusual position, many life stories are same and or similar, although everyones life story has its owns turns and nuances, we are all in essence the same. We need, we hope, we fear, we care, we have our strengths and limits.but it is not for any of us to judge another and condemn them for selfishness should the darkest corner of their life be reached.
But how to convince others to pour that bottle down the sink may not be so easy, we all suffer differently.