I am completely stumped about what to buy for a birthday pressie. It is for a 67 year old chap whose wife - my close friend - passed away about fifteen months ago. He is not in a good place, and I have been ringing him regularly and inviting him to visit us every now and again. He bought both of us birthday pressies (wine and a plant) and I would really like to reciprocate. Any help or ideas gratefully received. He doesnt drink or smoke and is very frugal with his food. He doesnt like gagets, doesnt own even a mobile (by choice), has just sold their house to seriously downsize, removing tons of 'junk' and saying he is so relieved to see it gone. He is moving to an apartment. He doesnt like going on 'experiences' on his own. I cant for the life of me think of a single thing to buy! Can anyone help?