Unfortunately I have never managed to achieve a good relationship with DIL, try as I might since DGS was born five years ago. She has always been remote with DH and me and we get the impression she wished we weren’t part of the family. She is very close to her parents and if we are ever around when they are, then we are virtually ignored. I guess we have learned to accept this behaviour (which to us is beyond rude). This has led to DH and me having little contact with the maternal grandparents. However, on Father’s Day, my son invited us all for a pub lunch. Whilst there DGS presented DIL,s father with a lovely handwritten Father’s Day card. Everyone admired it, including me, then I realised there wasn’t a card for my DH. It just looked so bloody obvious. You can’t blame the child but I know where this originated from and it wasn’t an oversight - this is how DIL is. In the past she has shown me lavish presents that she has bought for friends birthdays, but I am lucky if I even get a birthday card!
In this instance though, I am completely p,d that DH didn’t get a card from our only DGS who he adores. Next time Dil asks - via our son - if DH can do some DIY, I hope he tells her to ask elsewhere. She is a thoughtless bitch......
Rant over. Feel better (bitter!)
Anger management!!! Help needed.