Nanachel, I am that person! Trouble is today, one can’t avoid the “ child dies of sepsis, symptoms were missed”
“Child killed on road”, “child bullied at school”! A child this, a child that , child child child!!
I had six, worry worry worry....
Now got eight GC, and guess what? Worry worry worry. Worried before they were born! “Will it be ok?”
What if it’s ill? What if DIL can’t cope?
What if they get meningitis? then dies?
It never stops (well I’m 67so don’t hold your breath!)
What have I achieved? =nothing
Has it helped? = no.
Is anyone pleased I worry? = no.
Is it, in fact, detrimental? = YES, with bells on ?
Visualise pressing the “ anxiety on/off button, we all have ,say, behind your ear, Think of something happy, ie; chocolate, Cillian Murphy, being amazing, and just know you’re spoiling your life if you carry on cos it’s exhausting!
What will be,will be.
You know that. ?☺️???