My daughter, who lives the other side of the planet, has a lovely nanny (I mean the paid type) for our dgd. Nanny loves her and she loves her nanny and my daughter is very happy that dgd is being looked after so well and she is. We have met nanny many times and she is lovely. However, if dgd does something wrong (although wrong is not the word - she is not yet 2) such as not put the correct jigsaw piece in the the jigsaw etc the nanny will say 'That doesn't go there, you're a silly girl" not in a nasty way. When I was visiting she did this a couple of times and I said ' she's not silly' but I fear it has gone on deaf ears. I am just a bit concerned that if she is always being told she is silly then she might come to believe it. I would like to mention it to my daughter but don't know how to broach it.
Anger management!!! Help needed.