After almost 30 years of marriage I left my husband , we have grown up children a DS who has just had his first child and is happily settling into family life and a DD who still lives at home with her father in our family home . I moved away to a different part of the country and have moved on with my life met a new partner - my husband has not . It’s been very hard I still love my husband not in a romantic way but we had 30 years together - not all the best but that’s life. I’ve struggled with my feelings even though I love my new partner dearly and he is everything you could want- kind caring thoughtful , the things my husband lacked I guess. My new partner wants us to get married in part so that I can be secure in the future and his house can pass to me when he dies with no issues, he’s made provisions for me to live there the rest of my days but getting married will make it easier especially as he has children who feel their inheritance is their right ! Not that I have any intention of cutting them out of the money but i do worry what will happen to me in the future as we don’t have much money and I could sell the house and move somewhere more manageable . I digress obviously I must divorce which will be a blow to my husband as I’m sure he thinks one day I will return home but my problem is the house . There is still a mortgage which won’t finish until my husband is in his early 70s about 6 years away so he has to still work hard to pay it . My daughter is still at home and it is their home which I would never want to take that away from them so there’s no way I would make him sell it to give me my half and I think he will turn nasty when divorce is mentioned so he’s not going to play nice . I just feel I should walk away sign the house over to him and just make a clean break . Am I being stupid ?
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