Don't forget he will need support too, lots of comments about the kids, but Christmas is so hard when you are alone and used to being part of a family unit. The first Xmas day after I split with hubby and he had kids xmas day, I was all alone, sat in a cold bath ALL day sobbing my eyes out as used to being busy mum xmas day doing dinner, presents etc, as it always revolves round the kids, so no kids to me meant no xmas, it was very hard indeed and understand why suicide rate is so high during festive period after that horrendous day! so keep an eye on him too!